You should stay loyal to YOUR partner when you're in a relationship and NOT OTHER people's partner. If you're going to cheat on your partner, what's the point of having a relatinoship? You can just F around with other men/women that you like and there's no need for you to be committed to anyone. If you go F around and be flirty and all with other people, please use your f ing brain to think what are the consequences you have to deal with after that. NO..is not which one to choose cuz everyone will be bugging you to go out with for drinks or watever shit but the consequences of your partner LEAVING you for what you did. Don't go and send personal message to "the person" whom your partner has been contacting becuzzzz its :- 1) stupid 2) childish 3) retarded 4) useless 5) pointlss 6) ridiculous 7) and watever so on lous lous ness.... If you wanna go and cheat on your partner, then dear S ers DEAL WITH IT! BRAKE UP OR START TO BE LOYAL !!